Facts About Relationships

As defined in most dictionaries, marriage is the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband and wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law. It is an agreement that was bind by love and promises that even death can’t break.

It could have but that doesn’t mean it should have. The thing about relationships in the limelight is that there are all kinds of Monday morning quarterbacks who can tell you all about the plays they would have made in this situation. Life is filled with could have, would have, and should have. The thing about celebrity relationships like that of Sandra Bullock and Jesse James is that the public sees too much on the one hand and not enough to really judge on the other hand.

Sacrifice is important to maintain the relationship in the proper equilibrium. That’s the secret in some celebrity couples who successfully managed their relationship with their husbands. They give up the lime light and stayed as plain housewives. With that, they can perform their duties and responsibilities as wife and mother.

There’s the added insult for Sandra Bullock, often referred to as America’s Sweetheart in that she seemed to be the last to know. Despite Jesse James’ “bad boy” image she really believed her love had tamed and changed him. The cheating was a devastating blow. The scale and scope of it was too much for even America’s Sweetheart to handle. I’m thinking James is lucky he still has kneecaps.

The problem is that this type of cheating is becoming more and more widespread. We’re hearing more and more about it on the news. It seems that as soon as one mistress comes forward even more come crawling up out of the woodwork, hungry for media attention, and armed with photographic or text message evidence.

Defined as to produce a specific character or pattern of behavior, discipline is the way you look after yourself and keep yourself looking as attractive as possible. Keeping the home as a place of warmth and welcome when you get home at night makes it a difference as to how you both perceive each other. It can be achieved and is well worth the effort no matter how tired may be at the end of the day.

One of the most difficult parts of breaking up is getting through the initial shocks, sadness, and loss. Even those who feel that it was their choice to end the relationship, they still go through a period of feeling lost and confused. It is important not to misinterpret the pain. Most people tend to feel that they are in more pain than the other person. Allow yourself a time to engage in recognition of your pain and your loss and you’ll see the result.